You’re hobbying your health and not actually becoming a woman who lives it.
Because as an analytical woman who does loves to educate herself, learning (without risk of failure) has become your coping mechanism.
And, learning doesn’t create changes with your body, it only makes you intellectually constipated and leaves you with the victim story that “you’re trying so hard and nothing is working.”
No, you’re just getting smarter without the body you want – because you’re not acting on it.
Here’s exactly why this is happening for you:
You’re more comfortable learning, researching, and scrolling health advice than actually implementing it.
You’re demanding from your body rather than learning to work with it.
To solve this problem – and ultimately save a lifetime of mental energy – you’ll need to take this struggle by the root and remove it.
Which means, your ego, desperation, and entitlement needs a humongous glass of humility.
Once you drink that sh*t up, actually commit, and provide yourself and your body the container it needs to do this right?
Watch your life and body change drastically.
You haven’t focused on long-term healing, you’ve only focused on the weight loss in the timeframe you want.
Follow a basic food plan to eat healthier? Great.
You’ll never learn how to make resourceful eating decisions when nothing goes according to plan.
Cutting out carbs to lose the weight? Cool.
You’ll be miserable for a time then binge even more because you restricted yourself.
Taking a drug to eliminate the food noise? Gotcha.
Food noise was never the problem, it’s that you never learned to eliminate food noise by regulating your stress naturally.
You’ve always outsourced this problem to external solutions that are specifically designed to keep you depending on them for life.